Everything You Need To Know About The Pill

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Posted June 5, 2012


Guest post by Natalie Kringoudis.


The oral contraceptive pill (OCP) is the most-used pharmaceutical drug worldwide. Most women have taken it at some stage during their life. Many young women are being prescribed the pill to ‘sort out’ a wide variety of health issues including acne, endometriosis and polycystic ovarian syndrome. The truth is, the pill isn’t necessarily the long-term solution to these problems. It acts as a band aid to ‘cover up’ the true issue, and while some women think they are ok taking it, it isn’t until the stop they realise just how awful they felt while they were on it.

The pill interferes with fertility – because it is designed to do so. This isn’t a side effect, it is it’s main reason for existing – to stop you from falling pregnant.

Unfortunately when we are prescribed the pill, very little information as to its long-term effects is provided – we trust our doctors and we take it upon their recommendation. And it may not be your doctor’s fault – she too might not be fully aware of the long-term effects. As a practitioner, I certainly don’t judge women who take the pill, however I do like to make them aware of just how many of their complaints may be easily alleviated without taking the pill.

When I talk about the pill, I refer to all synthetic hormone contraceptives including the mini pill, the combined pill, implants such as mirena (TM), Inter Uterine Devices (IUD’s), vaginal rings, and patches. When the pill was initially introduced, manufacturers told women and practitioners it was safe. They soon realised it was far from the truth, and that it is actually the source of a long list of nasty side effects, including blood clotting, strokes, amputations and permanent damage. This problem was recgonised and warnings were placed on the packaging. Doses were altered, but the current generation oral contraceptive pills still come with the same warnings and have considerable side effects as well as cause substation nutritional imbalances which lead to a host of other issues (and when I say host – I mean a MASSIVE list).


Is It Safe To Take The Pill After Pregnancy?

I will never forget asking around my mothers group as to who wasn’t on the mini pill. I was totally shocked to find out that I was the only woman present, not taking it. When I asked why they were taking it – most of them could only say they did it because their doctor told them they needed to. I understand just as much as the next mum that falling pregnant again immediately after having a child is more than likely on the bottom of the to do list – in fact for most it’s on top of the DO NOT list (mine included). But understanding when you are fertile and when you are not would be far more useful than handing a woman a pill packet, as if the buck stopped there and she didn’t have to worry about it any longer. Was there any mention of mood swings, constant spotting or bleeding and just not feeling quite right? And would most women simply put this down to normal post-partum happenings, especially if it was their first time?

For a breast feeding woman, hormones taken in via the pill will be passed onto the child through the breast milk – contributing to a host of issues including behavioral problems, increased allergies, diabetes and learning issues.


The Pill and Low Libido

After post-pill infertility and migraines, the most common complaint I see in the clinic is low libido of women taking the pill. Scientists have discovered that the chemicals produced in the body as a result of the pill to stop ovulation continue to suppress testosterone levels – central to sexual desire in both men and women. This can continue for up to four years once a woman stops taking it. I find this quite ironic because in theory, you can’t get pregnant while on the pill – but if you don’t want sex while on the pill, then you can’t get pregnant anyway!


The Pill and Mood Swings

Then there are mood swings, weight gain, brittle bones and migraines. These are just four more of the most common side effects of the pill. Time and time again I hear women report (especially those who haven’t been on the pill but need to take it as part of IVF treatment) how they feel ‘psycho’ on the pill – an affect of all these unnatural hormones. The hormones in the pill aim to mimic hormones in your body, however they are not identical to your natural hormones. This is also because a normal dose of the pill is four times the amount of oestrogen normally present in the body. Pills are a “one size fits all”, however if no two bodies are the same, it becomes easy to recognise why so many women experience negative side effects.

Because the pill is toxic, it directly affects the liver. The liver, in Chinese medicine, is responsible for moving energy around the body (in the form of blood and nutrients). The pill very often stagnates this energy, meaning that the body isn’t nourished adequately. This is why so many women experience migraines, headaches and even weight whilst taking the OCP. It affects the normal rhythm of the body.

Migraines are found to be 40 percent more common among pill users than those who don’t take it. For women who are already having migraines, taking the pill can seriously exacerbate these problems. Often GP’s will try various pills to see if that makes a difference to the patient. Fact remains they are all a variation of the next and in most instances the headaches remain.


The Pill and Sexual Attraction

The most outstanding piece of information I have ever read about the pill is how it alters our attraction to the opposite sex. A recent study found that women on the pill see the world more platonically. They were shown images of naked women and men. Those on the pill reported a much more neutral view as opposed to those who didn’t take the pill who were easily able to imagine sexual scenes from viewing the pictures. It was also noted that those who were on the pill were far less charmed at seeing pictures of babies – hinting that the pill’s influence on reproductive interest. And here is the best bit. Certain volatile fatty acids – named ’couplins’ (not kidding, that is truly the real name) are secreted in the vagina and stimulate male sexual interest and behaviour. Women on the pill do not secrete couplins.

I’m sure there are dozens more of these little impacts the pill has on our bodies that we aren’t aware of – and again, this is the reason why many women feel so different when coming off the pill.


Does The Pill Equal No Pregnancy?

Of the most importance to those taking the pill is its effectiveness and it’s ability to prevent pregnancy. But the thing is, it isn’t all it is cracked up to be. In America alone some six million pregnancies occur in woman taking the pill. This isn’t necessarily because they weren’t taking it correctly. So many factors affect its ability to work.

An Australian study of women ages 18 to 39 on the pill who weighed 70 kilos or more found that they were 60 percent more likely to have their pill fail than women who weighed less. The average woman in Australia weighs 66.6 kilos. Professor Dr Victoria Holt says because women who weigh more have a higher metabolic rate, they need higher levels of hormones to prevent pregnancy – demonstrating again, it isn’t a one size fits all kind of situation. It’s also thought that because the pill is toxic and our bodies trap toxins in our fat stores, the pill may also be less effective in overweight women as it isn’t where it needs to be to work – in the blood stream.

Knowing your body and reading it’s signs is the absolute best way of knowing when you are fertile and when you aren’t. If you aren’t able to distinguish ovulation signs or you don’t have a regular cycle, it’s sure time you found out why. Seeking out a Natural Fertility Specialist is your next point of call.


The Pill Robs Our Nutrients

If you have stopped taking the pill in preparation to have a baby, a minimum of six months is essential to have the body back on track. You are vulnerable to a host of issues as the pill alters how your body metabolises nutrients, robbing it of essential vitamins and minerals. If pregnancy occurs immediately after stopping the pill it is crucial to ensure you are on the best quality multi vitamin and fish oil money can buy.

Zinc is one of the major essentials severely drawn out via the pill. Zinc deficient women have less elasticity in their skin, they have perineums that don’t stretch but tear in labour, have cracked nipples and prolonged labours.

Zinc is essential to maintain good copper/zinc ratio in the body – vital, since high levels of copper have been linked to depression. Zinc deficient babies (as passed on by the mother) are jittery and more likely to cry a lot. It certainly isn’t a winning combo – a zinc deficient, depressed breast feeding mother coupled with a zinc deficient upset baby.

Simply taking a multi vitamin alone may not be the saving grace – it will certainly help, but if you have come off the pill and things aren’t feeling right or going back to ‘normal’ (with your menstrual cycle) seek help as soon as possible. It can be easily treated with natural methods including Chinese medicine (one of the best and most effective forms).

 

Be encouraged to ask questions. Please do not misunderstand that there are some instances that the pill has provided an excellent short-term treatment to women. However, for most it isn’t a long-term solution without nasty side effects. Educating women to make decisions based on what their body is reporting to them provides a much more empowering experience than any little pill packet can ever deliver. Hormones affect how we think and feel and how we think and feel affects our hormones.

 

Sources:
1. Bennett, J & Pope, A. ’The Pill‘. Alex and Irwin. 2008.
2. Karen Aegidius et al., ‘Oral contraceptives and increased headache prevalence’, Neurology, 66: 349-53. 2006
3. Michael Richard et al., ‘Volatile fatty acids, “couplins”, in human vaginal secretions’ , Psychoneuroendocrinology, 1:153 – 63.
4. A Hobson and R. Grumman, ‘Contraception secrets your doctor hasn’t told you’, Cosmopolitan, december 2003.
5. ‘Women, contraception and unplanned pregnancy’, study commissioned by Marie Stopes International, January 2008
6. Bennett, J & Pope, A. ’The Pill‘. Alex and Irwin. 2008.

 

Author bio: Doctor of Chinese Medicine and Acupuncturist, Natural Fertility Educator and Writer, Natalie’s belief in the benefits of alternative therapies saw her establish her own Women’s Health and Natural Fertility clinic in Melbourne, The Pagoda Tree in 2003. The birth of Natalie’s first child; daughter Olivia (now four) further fuelled her love for natural health and home living and revealed to her an entirely new treatment perspective. Natalie has been featured in many publications, some including Marie Claire, Cosmo Health, Cosmo Pregnancy and Body + Soul and appeared on The Morning Show as their Natural Health expert. She enjoys any opportunity to educate women on the use of alternative therapies and nutrition. You can visit her site www.melbournenaturalfertility.com.au for up to the minute information on health and fertility as well as recipes for healthy living and wellness.

 

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Website: www.thepagodatree.com.au
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Twitter: @NatKringoudis

 

 

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What a great article! I haven’t been on the pill for years although I was for a period of about 10 years through my late teenage years and it was prescribed to relieve terrible cramping etc (which it didn’t). I must say though I am completely shocked about the “couplins”. I wonder if more women knew this would they be so inclined to take it? Aside from the synthetic chemicals etc messing about with sexual attraction is a scary thought!

Great article! I’m so glad I never took The Pill!

I took the pill about 12 years ago for 3 months. Psycho would be the best way to describe me. It was a nightmare. Never again. 4.5 years ago I started IVF. The doctor was going to start me on the pill at the start of my cycle. On hearing how psycho I may go they decided against it. Thankfully.

This is so interesting. I too have been taking it for years and years. I want to stop taking it but i’m worried that my body is so used to it that it’s going to affect me and give me mood swings etc – almost like I have to wean myself off it.

Does anyone have suggestions on good contraception alternatives?

If you want an alternative buy the lady comp http://www.ladycomp.com.au/ Totally effective for preventing pregnancy. I’ve been using it for 6 months and am SO happy to be off the pill and using natural methods.

I use Lady Comp too. Its awesome!!

We used the Natural Fertility Management contraception program from The Jocelyn Center before having children and also use condoms. I started taking the pill for skin problems in my 20s but didn’t feel great and stopped taking it.

Does anyone know if men develop any long term health problems as a result of a vasectomy?

I concur with the lady comp recommendation! I’ve been off the pill for a couple of months and have noticed so many changes! Can’t believe I put that crap in my body for so long! I LOVE Lady comp cause I don’t have to think! It’s perfect for lazy people! Sure its a little exy but it’s so worth it! Someone on here also told me about it.

Fantastic article! I wish they’d publish these in newspapers and women’s magazines!
More people need to know how horrible it is.. I remember my first encounter with the Pill. Horrible. Got sick, moody, skin went crazy… had trouble breathing. Then my Nautropath informed me about all the nasties in there… needless to say I never went back. Thank you for posting this article – I will be sure to share it with friends xox

Great post! Wish I knew all of this before 13 years of taking the pill and ending it with breast cancer at 29. Still wondering how much influence the pill played in my extremely hormone-sensitive tumour..

Great article.
As someone that has never been on the pill, nor has any intentions to start the pill, I have been adivsed be my local GP to use the pill in helping to regulate my period.
As I do not want to do this, does anyone have any advice of what to do in order to help regulate a (really out of wrack) period?
I already take natural substances such as Macca Powder.
Thanks!

Have you seen a naturopath? That’s what I would do in that situation. :-)

I started taking the pill at the age of 23. What a mess it did to my head, i am normally a happy nature but when i started taking the pill, i bacame moody, angry, skin turned on me, hair started falling out, i would cry at the drop of a hat, my relationships suffered badly because of this medication, i stopped taking it after 5 months and never again will i take it, i felt back to normal after two weeks of stopping the nightmare. Its amazing how quick doctors are to prescribe it when i mention i have time of month cramps, i am quick to point out the damage it did to me so, No thanks!!

I took the pill for about 10 years, how can I repair my body from taking such toxic junk?
Also what can I use for contraception?
I went to go on it again after having my kids and after I red the side effects I thought no way it will kill me for sure.
I have been off it for about 7 years now/

Great post! I got put on the pill when I was 13 to treat acne and psycho is a great way to describe how I initially felt. I have been off and on the pill for about 10 or 11 years now and I always feel so good when I’m off it, yet end up getting convinced by doctors and family to go on it again. I am determined to get off it and stay off it now! I think managing contraception through a variety of other methods, such as the calendar method and knowing your own body, is a great way to go.

While I’m one of those people who actually benefited greatly from taking the pill (we do exist), I have to agree that if you don’t feel good while taking it but feel great when not taking it, do what you can to stay off it.

And get better doctors! Any doctor who tries to get you to take them against your will is not someone you want to see. If the new doctor pulls the same stunt, tell them “Tough.” Literally. You do not have to explain anything. It’s your body, and you said no, so too bad for them. Same with your family. You’re a big girl, you don’t have to tell them why.

(Though I would suggest using additional barrier-type methods and not relying solely on calendars, etc. — too many people have had to deal with consequences from that….)

Oh, I probably should have added a last initial or something — I’m not the Jessica who runs the site, just another reader!

I had been taking the pill for about 6 years, I came off it because it was making me hormonal, and then my period never came back for 18 months. After various scans and blood tests the specialist didn’t know what was wrong and put me back on the pill. After 2 years Ive decided to come back off it and I’ll wait as long as it takes for my period to come back.

Has anyone else experienced this? Does anyone have advice for me?

Yes, it is such a shame, I took the pill for about 6 years, have been off it for 12 months and as yet no period or spotting.. I am seeing a naturopath and have just started seeing a chiropractor to try and sort things as I am 27 and in the near future I would like children of my own.. however it seems impossible!
I would love to manage my contraception using the calendar method, however it makes it difficult when you don’t have a cycle..
I do wish more women knew about the adversity; I know of many young women like myself who have had issues with ammenhorea..
Great post!!

Luckily I only spent 2 years on the pill. I then followed a natural fertility program to first use as a contraception. I had no mishaps for 15 year, I thought maybe I could be infertile, not many people trusted it. The moment I decided to have a child I fell pregnant the first month. I takes discipline but it’s worth it, I hardly think about it now. I instantly know when I’m safe or not.

My friend was on the pill for years, had two kids and resumed the pill for more years until she decided to stop taking it. Since then she has had the worst periods, she clots and bleeds very heavily for three weeks of the month most cycles and then just continually bleeds with no stopping for months at a time. Needless to say she is a mess and has no sex life with her husband because of this.
She went to a Gyno to get some answers, first he prescribes Primulut which he promises would stop the bleeding…nope it got worse, then he decided she needed an IUD to help regulate her cycle, as he told her the pill had just mucked up her cycle so badly. This didnt work either, her body rejected it and she kept bleeding. Once again she went back in desperation and what did he do …he gave her a prescription for the pill as he can’t think what else to do for her.
Do you believe it ?
A specialist who prescribes more of the same thing that screwed her up in the first place !

I’m about a month and a half off the Pill after being on it for probably 18 years (15 until 33) originally for my skin then I just stayed on it, i went off it after much discussion with my GP and my health coach and while I wasn’t experiencing any noticable side effects from being on it, I wanted to come off it, I might want to fall pregant before I get too old and want to give myself best chance of that. I’ve not experienced any really negative or positive side effects from coming off it but as my health coach says, it could take a few months to properly flow through my body…missing the clockwork periods though!!! Oh well, will wait and see what happens I guess, I ‘m happy that I FINALLY stopped taking it because I’d been thinkign about it for a couple of years but been too scared about potential side effects.

Congratulations, a very well written article, good work. Women of Australia really need to be educated about the Pill as opposed to just given it and told ‘take this’. As wonderful as modern medicine is, it can be so problematic, I treat women daily on their infertility issues that mostly the pill has caused. The body has to revert back to it’s natural cycle once you stop taking the pill, it is a hormone that has control over your rhythms, it is excreted from you, in your breastmilk, in your urine, into our waterways. We must as women think about whether it is right or necessary for us as individuals.

I have been taking the pill for 7 years now. I first went on the pill to regulate my periods and help with the crippling pain I was in every month. The pain was so intense I would basically spend the whole week off school vomitting because the pain was so bad. The pill cleared this up for me instantly. Last year I decided I would try taking my body off it and see what happened. Sure enough the pain was back, my skin broke out into extreme acne, my hair fell out and generally felt unwell. After this little experiment I was back on the pill in a flash and back to normal. I would love to get off the pill but its such a catch 22 with the horrible reaction I have!!

I feel ya! Since my periods began, I had to skip school/work the day they started because I had intense pain. Although my reaction isn’t as intense as yours, maybe what I did could help you? I went off the pill and started eating less meat (became vegan for a while) and processed foods. I know this helped but it wasn’t enough. It’s when I stopped eating gluten and sugar and started exercising every morning that I stopped having intense pains. My personal theory is (note that I am not a doctor,) that your blood flows better when you’re exercising, off gluten and sugar, so there are less clots that bring pain. Have you seen a naturopath maybe? Anywho, I hope the best for you, I understand how painful that time of the month can be! xox good luck!

Kim I 100% agree with you, that is exactly what I did and it made a dramatic difference

Very informative post!
These are all of the things that your doctor forgets to tell you but all women should know.
I will def be asking more questions the next time I see me doctor.
Lisa x

So does anyone know how to treat acne (especially on the back and shoulders) without the pill? I eat sensibly, dont drink alcohol, drink heaps of water, no coffee etc, but it seems like the Pill is the only thing that stops me from breaking out :(

Try tea tree oil. I find thats quite good for treating acne problems of mine!

Please find an Ayuvedic practitioner. It sounds like heat in the body that needs to be cleared. Neem capsules are fantastic for clearing acne. It also comes in soaps and creams for topical use too. Check you can take it if your on medication. Avoid sugar, caffeine, gluten and non organic dairy too. I feel stress and excess oestrogen plays havoc with my skin. I find sipping green tea, nettle tea, boiled water also helps.
Green powders like barley grass and spirlina clear and cool tissues. Beetroots aid the flow of bile which important for the live. Milk thistle is great for the liver. I am not a Herbalist so it’s worth seeing a professional one for a proper consultation. Most importantly your body cleans and repairs during sleep and so if you can go to bed by 10pm. This works wonders for the whole body and hormone balance. Hope this helps you.

Hi Lisa,
I tried for 10 years to naturally cure my acne. The pill helped a little bit, eating gluten-free / Low GI helped a little bit, I went and saw my natural health practitioner which helped a little bit, but nothing ever just cleared it up for me. I tried every cream, every practitioner natural and otherwise, I even tried colonics! So after a devastating personal journey with basically zero results, I’ve finally succumbed to taking roaccutane. I was determined not to go on it for all of those 10 years but I finally decided that for my sanity and self-esteem, I needed to clear this up for good. I’ve not found the roaccutane too bad and am nearly finished with it, and I’m just hoping that I’m not left with any long-term effects. I suppose it really is up to you and you have to weigh up the pros and cons very carefully before considering any form of medication.

I have been on the pill on an off for 12 years and haven’t noticed any side effects. I really really do not want to get pregnant again so I’m staying on it.

i’d love to know anyone’s experiences with Zoely, a relatively new pill that is Eostrogen based… i’d love to be taking none at all, but my hormones (and along string of other health issues) are almost non existant in my body and i have not been successful in regulating them by diet alone. there have def been some good results with being on Zoely for 4 mths, but the downsides (incl a 4kg weight gain) are making me wonder what the right option is…

It’s been 4 months on Zoely – after years of natural medicine failed to help my cysts and total lack of natural hormones, I agreed to try Zoely because the estrogen in it is bioidentical & the progestin is as close as you can get to a our own progesterone in an oral contraceptive. So far, doing quite well. No weight gain, although I could use a kilo or 2 extra on me. I went through 2 months of mild morning sickness upon starting it, that was the only real side effect.
My “natural” cycles were pure hell prior to this. Now my monthly cycle is a breeze. But eventually when I come off this, everything will be bad again. It’s just a bandaid. Just because it’s one of the more bioidentical estrogens, doesn’t mean it sits well with me to be taking it orally for years. In terms of TCM, it must cause stagnation &/or more liver issues over time. Any oral hormones, even close to natural, are handled by the poor old liver.
I would rather be on Chinese herbs long term, trust me! This was a last resort because my ovarian cysts were growing dangerously big.
Interestingly, my colleague started on Zoely & it has been anti-ageing for her (she’s over 40). Her cheeks a fuller, skin is plumper, breasts fuller… just like an HRT effect. She was on an old fashioned pill prior – the difference has been incredible.
Hope this info helps :)

I love Nat! And I agree, I couldn’t believe the difference when I stopped taking it. And still fell pregnant using the mini pill and breasfeeding. To be fair, I wasn’t taking it correctly anyway :-)

Great article! I too was on pill for 4 years. Went off it when heard that it is abortificient (here is a video about that http://28daysonthepill.com/full.html) , and being a christian, it didn’t seem right to me.
After that have been dealing with concequences – irregular cycles, then had a miscarriage and now still trying for a baby for more than a year.
Both with husband we are now practising Natural family planning method.
To those of you who mentioned calendar method- it is HISTORY. As one calculation can’t work for all women, as we have so different cycle lenghts. Here and other places you can find info about NFP http://www.ccli.org/
This method is great for health as well as they teach you how to look after yourself, when see how your cycle works, what supplements to take, more about healty eating too.
Offcourse traditional gyn dont know about it anything or are very unsupportive, at least in my country.
Can recommend going off pill if you care about your health and wan’t to have children at some point.

I would like to know what others think of the other contraceptives such as the IUD/Mirena and the Nuva Ring. I was on the pill for a while, got off that and my mood and health improved quite a bit. Then, 5 years later, I was convinced to get the Mirena as I had a new partner. Well, 2 years later, I was eager to get rid of it as it caused pain during intercourse and my mood was a bit harder to be in control of. I also lost a lot of hair and had low libido. Additionally, I got freaked out when I was told by a friend and read a few articles that said the MIrena should NOT be taken by anyone who hasn’t yet given childbirth. Funny that my doctor never told me that… Anyway, not even a week after taking it out, I was back to normal (is that just in my head?) Regardless to say, I would like to have more information as I haven’t been able to find much information on it except from my doctor that swears by it.

Another question I have for you is what to do when your doctor makes you feel bad for making a decision such as this? When I wanted to be off the IUD and refused to take the pill, she asked me questions with such expressions that I didn’t even feel comfortable being there. So I just passively took her 3month prescription and pretended I’d try it out. How else should I have reacted without starting some kind of argument?

Hi Kim,
After 12 years of suffering from extremely heavy periods and severe pain, trying numerous different pills, none of which worked, I was finally referred to a gynecologist who discovered I had endometriosis. I had day surgery to laser the endometriosis and insert a Mirena IUD. Since then I have had minimal bleeding and almost no pain. That was over 6 months ago. Unlike some others have said my gynecologist was excellent, he provided me with all the information about the pill, the surgery, the IUDs and other contraceptive methods and let me make the decision for myself. I also did my own research and felt like this was the only choice for me. I also have not had children yet but am confident that when I have the Mirena removed I will be able to. I think the most important thing is to find a doctor who is willing to provide all the information you need without forcing you to do something that is against what you believe in.
I still think that nutrition has a big part to play, however it wasn’t enough in my case. Like Natalie said there is no one size fits all solution and everyone is different so you should just do what feels right for you.

I fell pregnant with the Mirena IUD, and i had to have it removed at 8 weeks pregnant, not pleasant i can tell you, and this was after terrible bleeding and terrible mood swings.
And if you read my post somewhere above, it tells of the probs one of my friends has had with that and the pill.

What an amazing article! Thank you so much for all of this information!

Great post, but just want to say that copper IUDs do NOT contain hormones.

NEEM. I give organic neem capsules to my boyfriend. It act like a male pill on him. It greatly reduces his ability to impregnate me. If he stops taking them, after six weeks he is back to normal. This is being heavily researched and taken by the Indian army.
I take neem tincture myself . It’s first of all bitter which makes my womb less inviting to sperm. Also if I do get pregnnant it very safely and gently just reaborbs the zygote back into the body! Amazing herb. It also raises the immune system, clears heat from the liver, balances blood sugar, clears acne. Of course anyone interested should check with their naturopath or Ayuvedic herbalist. Also the pure organic Neem oil from will kill sperm in the in the vagina and protect against certain sexually transmitted disease. It sounds too good to be true but this is an ancient revered herb. In India neem is used in so many ways it’s called the ‘Village Pharmacy’. Don’t just apply any neem oil into the vagina area without checking with an Ayuvedic or herbalist first.

I have managed to get pregnant on 3 different types of contraceptive. The first one was the pill. Second was a Lady Comp (the proclaimed natural way). The third a non-hormonal IUD.

But the thing that really annoys me – I have breast fed both my children and I wasn’t on the pill at any time. But one is a type 1 diabetic, the other has learning difficulties. It’s plain rubbish to throw such unsubstantiated comments out there and confuse first time mums who are trying to do the best thing for them and their families. My older son has type 1 diabetes because of a) a genetic component and b) a number of antibodies as a result of infection. My younger son has a learning disability because his neurological pathways are not the same as yours. He is in the same boat as about 10% of the whole population because our brains are as unique as we are.

On top of that I got pregnant on the pill. I only can get pregnant if I have sex and I can’t say my libido was low while I was on the pill. I found the other gender rather interesting at that time …

And last but not least. I had less migraines and less of my mineral absorption problems while on the pill. There were many reasons for me to stay on the pill, but as the pregnancy with my son made clear, the pill wasn’t working for me!

A good gynecologist will talk to you about the different types of pills and find the right solution for you. If your pill causes side effects, tell your doctor and they will change it! There’s not a one size fits all solution, there are many different types. Your research has been very superficial and one-sided.

I believe everyone has to find the method of contraception that is right for them! And if it is the pill, let it be the pill …

I have been on the pill since I was 14 to help with moods but it made it worse and i suffered from depression this was one of the things my doctor listed as a contributing factor. One year off it now and I feel like a have my energy and good moods back! I just hope all these on it dont effect me falling pregnant in the future. Was given this article byva friend and will be passing it on to many more friends and family. You are all so right, I wish more young girls would read something so trueful and informative before going to the doctor for ‘contraception’ purposes and having the nasty side effects. Thanks for the article and great feedback as a result :)

I just recently stopped taking the pill which I was only taking for a year, and OMG, I feel like MSELF again. I had no idea that I had been living with a different personality this past 12 months. I feel bubbly and alive again- it is so weird that the tiny little pill could have such a massive impact on my personality. I won’t be going back down the pill route again, it just isn’t worth it.

I am so unbelievably grateful for people such as Nat. Having personally gone through my own dramas with the pill (unfortunately I still am) it makes me feel a great deal better that I’m not the only one out there spreading the word. For young girls taking the pill these days is the norm and it’s frightening!!

I love your website!!!

I personally feel like a BRAND NEW person after stopping the pill. And here I was thinking I was fine while on it for 12 years.
You don’t realise the harm its doing until you stop!

:)

I’ve taken birth control for around 4 years now. It is the only thing that has helped my periods enough for me to function during my time of month. I would normally pass out and now I can be active and actually have a life. I’ve had no side effects from it. I hate that I have to defend something that has helped me so much.

I agree, you shouldn’t have to defend something that has helped you so much! The vast majority of women are absolutely fine on the method of contraception they choose for themselves and hence you won’t find them commenting on this article, much of which has a twisted angle on the truth.

I’m wondering if this is the same kind of deal for the implanon?

Hi,

I was on the new pill: zoely for 3 weeks. The first two weeks were ok, in the 3th week I started to get more emotional and it got worse until I was on the floor crying! I am normaly a very stable person so for me there was no doubt…

Yesterday I stopped taking this pill and I will, no surprise, will never take it again! I felt like a complete wreck.

Greetings from Holland, Anita

I think it’s very easy for women who have relatively pain free,regular periods to go on about how awful the pill is and how we shouldn’t really be taking it. I have very, very painful irregular periods that last for over 10 days. I’ve been to so many drs/specialists and they can find nothing wrong. My life was put on hold every time I had a period and I was becoming anxious and depressed from it. Also been to a naturopath – no help there. The pill has helped me so much. I can now enjoy life because of it. I find articles like this very one sided and probably written by someone who doesn’t experience big issues from their period.

A great resource I want to recommend is Bedsider (www.bedsider.org) for information on the various types of birth control (including the pull out method and abstinence). Also, I want to stress that it’s important to use another form of birth control in additional to taking the pill: condoms. If used correctly, condoms are an additional barrier against unwanted pregnancy and also prevents STIs, something that the pill cannot protect you from.

I wonder why nothing ever “effects” skinny women!

Well I have endometriosis and the pill is my saviour, decreasing my pains by a lot. You guys are such toxic weirdos.

Hi all, I have just been described Zoley – what do i google it & the wonder Wellness Warrior pops up. For those that have mentioned Zoley … what are you thoughts.