The Youth Of Your 20’s Is The Key To Your Fertile 30’s
Guest post by Natalie Kringoudis.
Does it seem you spent most of your twenties trying your darndest not to fall pregnant, only to discover that now you’re thirty-something the pipes aren’t as squeaky clean as you expected? You are not alone. Many women are now finding themselves in their thirties, trying to rewind the clock. It sounds so silly, we can get so caught up in getting ahead for the future: How do we get from a to b? Where are we going for dinner? What are we wearing? Our work choices? We disregard the actual nuts and bolts of future – it’s modern living.
While sitting at the chiropractor a little while back I read something interesting about preventative medicine. Whilst it is great that routinely we are offered ‘check-ups,’ are we failing to realise that wellness and prevention aren’t the same thing? Living well takes a huge amount of effort. It isn’t simple – but it simplifies life once we get the hang of it. It’s a practice makes perfect (well almost) kind of thing. Because we know that no one is perfect, but our lives get closer to a sort of wonderful perfection as we work on what works for us.
Let me introduce myself. I’m Nat Kringoudis. I’m a mother of two, a wife and a Natural Fertility Specialist, Acupuncturist and Herbalist. I run a busy Natural Fertility and Women’s Health Clinic – The Pagoda Tree in Albert Park, Melbourne. I dedicate a lot of my time, just as Jess does, educating women on, well, being women and being well, through my blog – Fertile Body, Heart and Soul and through other media outlets. Jess has asked me to do a series of posts around fertility. It’s an interesting and sometimes daunting topic – some of you might find your attention swerve at the word ‘fertility’ and others might try to jump ship quicker than you can utter the word ‘baby.’ I’m here to tell you this: Fertility doesn’t necessarily equate to babies. Fertility is very simply the potential to conceive, if and when the time is right. That is – with a healthy reproductive system.
As infertility and IVF rates climb, women are being forced to re-think the way we look at our health, specifically our fertility. It is important to remember that health and fertility are not separate entities, wellness and fertility are intrinsically linked. Women with endometriosis, poly cystic ovarian syndrome and hormonal imbalances are very aware that their fertility is potentially being compromised by these conditions, and therefore they must use this diagnosis to their benefit. With the knowledge that comes with a diagnosis, women are then able to make treatment decisions that can make a real difference to their fertility future.
You might be in your twenties, and having a baby is the last thing on your mind. You might be in your thirties but have fertility challenges caused by illness, so you think being on the pill is the answer to fertility problems (you can read why it isn’t here and here). You might even be past the pregnancy phase of your life but know somebody who is young that needs support and fertility education. The truth is as women we should never stop learning about our health, especially when it comes to reproductive function. It spans from our first menstruation way into the years after our last.
So how do we keep learning and keep healthy. Firstly we realize that healthy fertility does not have to mean you want a baby and you want it now – it means you want to be at your optimum health. The best start is being mindful that you are not superhuman and your body requires a constant level of care. Exploring your options and getting to the crux of health issues is vital to build a solid foundation, to serve yourself well for the years you and your body have ahead. We can’t always fall back on medications – they often fail to offer a solution to a broken body. Optimum health always comes back to simple wholesome lifestyle practices. Our twenty-something’s youth is the key to our thirty-something’s fertility.
I look forward to sharing with you over the next few months. I have planned topics including poly cystic ovarian syndrome and endometriosis, the pill and how it affects your fertility, unexplained fertility, and my top fertile foods. These are all coming your way. I hope you will be encouraged (and maybe challenged in a positive way) to make the right choices and preserve your youth – it’s never too late to start.
Can you relate to the topics in this article? Have you faced fertility challenges or issues like endometriosis and PCOS? What fertility questions would you like answered? Share your thoughts in the comments below!
Author bio: Doctor of Chinese Medicine and Acupuncturist, Natural Fertility Educator and Writer, Natalie’s belief in the benefits of alternative therapies saw her establish her own Women’s Health and Natural Fertility clinic in Melbourne, The Pagoda Tree in 2003. The birth of Natalie’s first child; daughter Olivia (now four) further fuelled her love for natural health and home living and revealed to her an entirely new treatment perspective. Natalie has been featured in many publications, some including Marie Claire, Cosmo Health, Cosmo Pregnancy and Body + Soul and appeared on The Morning Show as their Natural Health expert. She enjoys any opportunity to educate women on the use of alternative therapies and nutrition. You can visit her site www.melbournenaturalfertility.com.au for up to the minute information on health and fertility as well as recipes for healthy living and wellness.
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Blog: www.melbournenaturalfertility.com.au
Website: www.thepagodatree.com.au
Facebook: facebook.com/pages/The-Pagoda-Tree/
Twitter: @NatKringoudis
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Sounds great! I haven’t had a fertility challenge, but I look forward to reading more.
Thanks for your article Natalie, I have been hoping that Jess would touch on this soon.
I was diagnosed with PCOS about 2 years ago after not getting my period for 1.5 years after being on the pill. I went to an endocrinologist and she just told me that in needed to go back on the pill as i had low estrogen levels. I did as she recommend however after reading some horrific things surrounding the pill, including Jess’s great article, i decided to go back off it again. I stopped getting my period again. I recently visited a great naturopath specializing in fertility and she has regained my hope in repairing my body. I was so upset that the only option i was given was to go on the pill and to consider IVF and fertility drugs when i wanted to get pregnant!
I really look forward to learning more about this because i want to do everything i can to reverse the damages of what i believe the pill has done to me.
Thanks again,
Claire
Education around Fertility is so important! Unfortunately I have learnt the hard way. After a combination of coming of the pill, dieting, excessive exercise (pre wedding) I was left without a period. So last year when we decided to start trying for a baby my specialist tried several ways to induce a period which didnt work. We decided to take the IVF route, which was about the same time, I started yoga, meditation, massages, exercise I enjoyed and really becoming more educated about food and eatting. What I learned very quickly is that health is not measured by a figure on the scales or by how skinny you are. Its about energy, digestion, your skin, hair, the list goes on! So 1 miscarriage and 3 rounds of IVF later I am now 17 weeks pregnant and couldnt be happier
This last 18mths has been a massive learning curve and if I had of known what was install for me, I would have changed my habits and way of life allot earlier!
If I have a daughter, I am going to try my hardest to educate her to make the best choices for herself and not to make the same mistakes I did.
Sophie, congratulations on your pregnancy! That is really wonderful news for you after just a tough way of getting there. Be well. x
Thanks Sara!
Hi Natalie,
Thanks so much for your post today. I think everything you’ve discussed is so true and I can relate to as I have experienced issues like ovarian cyst, endometriosis and most recently a m/c.
In our teen years and early 20′s we do expect that falling pregnant is normal and it happens for everyone and it’s easy, i’m well aware now that it’s something not everyone experiences the same, and there are so many emotional issues that come with it.
Most recently I have read about hypnofertility for unexplained infertility, i’d love to hear more about this. Having experienced a m/c i’m finding the emotions and anxiety each month now as we start trying again to concevive sometimes so overwhelming and consuming!All I want to do is stay positive and move forward with the next stage in my life….and hopefully a healthy baby soon:)
I look forward to more of your posts, keep up the great work!
Mel
Hi,
I look forward to this!
I had years of struggling through Anorexia and low body weight causing my periods to stop.
The main reason I wanted to get better was because i was so scared on the impact of being a low body weight has on your reproductive system for when I decided to be a mother in the future.
I’d love to hear more about this and also to cause awarness of how dangerous unhealthy eating habbits are and the effects.
Lisa x
Hi Lisa
I was bording on Anorexia myself. My eatting plan was so controlled and my pyschologist said I had the mind set of a person with an eatting disorder. I still receive therapy now, as now I am pregnant, its even more important to eat well and not be afraid of gaining weight!
Good luck, as it’s a tough place to climb out off.
xoxo
Hi Natalie,
Thank you so much for this post. I’d love to read your insights. I’ve personally had uterine fibroids and subsequent surgery and hence am interested to know how to stay healthy and fertile.
This segment is a wonderful addition to your fantastic blog. I am interested to read about PCOS, endometriosis, perimenopause and estrogen dominance, and specifically about achieving healthy levels of hormones naturally.
Hi Natalie
It’s really great to be hearing an alternative perspective on women’s health.
I am wondering if you have any thoughts on the causes of PCOS (emotional factors as well as physical) and what you think are the best ways to begin treating it? It seems like quite a mysterious condition which is difficult to treat as the symptoms seem to vary a lot and don’t have one defininte cause. I’d love to know your thoughts
thanks, Katie
This is perfect! I am 24 and I am very confused by what my hormones are doing. I initially went on the pill to clear up my skin and later when I went to come off it I did not have a period for 6months. I went for an ultrasound and the results resembles PCOS, but I did not have any other of the ‘usual’ symptoms. So I was advised to go back on the pill again. A bandaid for a bullet wound. I now want to some off the pill for good because I know its not the answer, and I am currently looking for naturopathic support in balancing my hormones naturally. I will stay tuned
I’d like to know more about contraception, specifically what you can do to not get pregnant. I stopped the pill last year after 15 years as my face is covered in melasma. I currently have a mirena but ideally would like to be contraceptive free
Thanks!
I’m looking forward to these posts.
Thought I’d just add for anyone who is interested a great book about the pill. A must read.
‘The Pill’ by Jane Bennett & Alexandra Pope. I certainly wish I had known about it before going on the pill many years ago.
Hi Natalie. Thanks for a great post, I look forward to reading more. I like to find out about fibroids and getting pregnant. I have 10cm fibroid and have been trying to get pregnant without any luck for the past 12mths. I am 37. I like to find out how to shrink it to increase my chances of falling pregnant.
Hi Natalie and Jess
Thanks so much for covering this topic. Like some of the other ladies, I too have ovary cysts but I am told I don’t have the ‘syndrome’. I’ve had 12 years of painful periods, severe bloating and constant cystic acne (and the anxiety that goes with it). Numerous times i got my hormones tested (blood sample) but nothing ever came of it. I was on the pill for most of this time to ‘treat’ my acne and PMS. The women’s health Dr who found my cysty ovaries told me that my treatment for this was to go back on the pill! Finally I found a brilliant integrative doc who got me to do the saliva hormone test and found that my estrogen was crazy high, so was my testosterone and I had very little progesterone. So I hope to find out what you think causes cysts? Is it the lack of progesterone? And also, wondering why blood hormone sampling is used when it’s not accurate? And why the pill is prescribed as a treatment? Also, do you know of the pill causing high cholesterol? I tracked mine and it was so high while on the pill (9.2) that the same womens health doc that wanted to treat my cysts with the pill said I should go on statins! Wow sorry! Thats a lot of questions! Looking forward to your next column (and yours too Jess)
Thank you for the post! I look forward to future posts for this segment of the blog. I was diagnosed with endometriosis in 2007 and have looked to many natural therapies including diet, exercise, and acupuncture to help keep the pain to a minimum. I of course am always open to new ideas surrounding fertility and other women’s health isssues.
Years ago, after going off the pill and having a difficult time getting pregnant, I started using a combination of natural methods (Billing’s) for getting pregnant and for not getting pregnant. It has been very healthful and helpful as it can also flag subtle health issues.
Last year, after implementing much of the Gerson Therapy, I noticed mucus looking “dirty”, something many of us could overlook when cleansing. Even my female parts were detoxing!
My periods are now several days shorter and lighter…yahoo! I share all this to encourage others considering natural methods. There are realistic alternatives to the pill or pesticides (hehe!).
Lastly, I would like to suggest not calling it “falling pregnant.” It gives somewhat of a negative connotation. Pregnancy can be the best news in the world! How about simply “expecting.” It leaves a bit of privacy with excitement.
Thank you for your article.
Really glad I cam across this post and will be listening in, I have polycistic ovaries was told in Jan even though normal period etc and have since been hospitalized for a hemorrhagic cyst which because it was small I was just sent home with some paracetamol, I’ve realized now that the pain I’ve been putting down to really bad wind is actually this cyst kicking off every so often, yay I can eat Onions again! I’m on lots of pain killers for various back problems but I’m getting more and more worried about the fertility aspect since my doctors just don’t seem to care! Will definitely be following the series!
Hi,
Great topics! I’m very interested in learning more about PCOS, having been put on various pills for it by my doctors and endocrinologist. I’ve stopped taking the pill and am looking to get my body back on track.
It would be great if you could explain what causes PCOS and how we can turn this around and regain our fertility. I’ve found that a lot of advice I’ve followed (eat low GI, eat protein with every meal, fish oils, supplements to control blood sugar, limit caffeine and xenoestrogen exposure) have not made much difference in my ‘symptoms’ and would appreciate more guidance.
Also, can we get to the bottom of insulin resistance?!
Yey!
Look forward to more of your posts Natalie ![]()
Ive been battling PCOS for the last 10 years and recently diagnosed with adenomyosis and estrogen dominance. After many unsuccessful ‘medical interventions’ ie the pill and laparoscopies etc etc (with horrible side effects). I had reached a point where I had lost faith in the medical profession! I decided to take things into my own hands and have now adapted a natural approach to my teatment (diet, natropathy, accupuncture and eliminatiing all xenoestrogens). I no longer call it a ‘treatment’ but my way of life. Would love to hear more of your suggestions!
Thanks !
Hello –
I grew up in a holistic practice family. I was puzzled that I couldn’t get pregnant after trying for a year. I refused to see regular doctor so I went to acupuncture but not working…I tried so many remedies to get pregnant but still not working. I gave up and went see OB gyn. She said my ovaries and everything is normal and healthy. Unexplainable infertility is what she called me. It been three years, still not pregnant. I have period every month, never missed. I eat organic foods and all that. I need help!
I am 28 years old. I am looking forward to read more from you. Thank you.
In answer to Rachel’s post – your partner and yourself could try supplementing with at least 25mg of zinc gluconate every day, and also 5grams (that is right – 5000mg) of vitamic c as sodium ascorbate in divided doses. If you weren’t aware of the benefits of vitamin C and zinc for fertility, check out doctoryourself.com: http://www.doctoryourself.com/fertility.html
Regards
David

