How to breathe to your advantage
There are many things I say that I cannot live without: my parents, my puppy dog, my boyfriend, green smoothies etc. But this is not true. The one thing we all really cannot live without is breath – yet this is probably one of things we most take for granted.
Breathing is free. It’s simple. We all have access to unlimited amounts of it at any time throughout the day. Perhaps this is why we discredit it so much. If breathing were rated appropriately, we would recognise just how powerful it is as a healing tool, a mood enhancer, a pain reliever, a calming agent, and a crisis diverter.
Marc B. Levin, author of Eight Shifts for Wellness: Practical Transformative Steps to Enhance Health, Wellness, and Well-Being, says that breathing a certain way can assist us in how we relate to a situation, and therefore impact our wellness.
“Changing how we are breathing can relax the body, help our mind focus, change our emotional state and reduce the impact of stress. Changing how we are breathing can foster the self-healing powers of our body.”
The two basic ways of breathing are chest breathing and deep breathing. Many people, myself included, mostly use shallow chest breathing. I often catch myself going one worse than this and holding my breath. This is not good.
When you are deep breathing, the breath will travel all the way down to the diaphragm rather than just in the chest. Deep breathing serves to trigger relaxation, which causes the blood capillaries to expand, allowing more oxygen to travel to locations where healing is needed. Deep breathing using our diaphragm efficiently pulls oxygen into all areas of our lungs, which is more beneficial than shallow chest breathing.
These are some of the benefits you can gain by adopting a deep breathing style:
# Pain management and relief
# Reduction in anxiety
# Lowering and management of stress levels
# Deep relaxation
# The ability to stay present in the moment
# Easing of nerves
# Freshly oxygenated cells
# Healthier lymphatic system
# Ability to see the bigger picture when it comes to challenges
# Stronger coping mechanisms
# Healing
# Improved digestion
Have you ever wondered why deep breathing and the practice of yoga go hand-in-hand? This is not an accident. Yoga poses can be tricky. They call for you to twist, bend, and hold positions that can feel incredibly uncomfortable at first. Well, the breath is incorporated with each pose to allow you to let go and relax. Once your breathing is deep enough, you will be able to cope with whatever pose the teacher throws at you. This is the same in life. When you breathe deeply, you are able to cope with whatever circumstances you find yourself in.
My friend, mindfulness mentor, and yoga teacher Susana Frioni is a genius when it comes to explaining this stuff. Which is why I picked her brain for you:
What are some situations where we would benefit from just coming back and focusing on our breathing?
Every moment. In particular any time we get lost in conversation with ourselves, or find ourselves on autopilot, or perpetuating drama and about to unleash our stuff on somebody else, making decisions, listening to someone, being intimate with someone … Focusing our awareness on our breath is what pulls us back to the here and now.
What is the correct way to breathe deeply?
Observing the breath is a means of being present. However, when we force ourselves to breathe deeply we are in fact controlling and manipulating the breath… and as we all know, there’s only so long you can control and manipulate something. As a result, we are not observing reality as it is and therefore we are not present. Instead we have created an artificial reality.
The key to breathing deeply starts with the simplicity of observing the breath just as it is. As we allow ourselves to experience whatever is arising in that exact moment, we allow thoughts and impressions to pass through our awareness without becoming attached to them. Therefore, the more we let go of our mental chatter and tensions in the body, the more space we create for the breath to naturally move deeper through us.
Why do you think breath is not given the credit it deserves?
I think it has something to do with our restless search for that something more that is OUT THERE. The idea that observing our breath can have such a profound impact on us seems too simple to be true.
My mantra: Breathe and all is revealed. Love and all is healed.
How to tell if you’re a deep breather or not:
Place your right hand on your upper chest and your left hand on your abdomen in your navel area. Breathe normally. If the right hand rises first, you are upper-chest breathing. If the left hand rises first, you are deep diaphragm breathing. Another method is to see which hand rises more. If your right hand rises more, you’re a chest breather. If your left hand rises more, you are an abdomen breather. Now perform the exercise by breathing slowly through your nose and see if you notice a difference.
Let’s all take a deep breath together right now …
Sit up straight in your chair or lie down on your back. Take a slow deep breath through your nose and fill the lower portion of your lungs first and then fill the upper portion of your lungs. Then exhale slowly through your nose. Repeat the exercise.
Are you a chest breather or a diaphragm breather? Can you notice the difference in your body and mind when you focus on deep breathing?
Top image credit: http://www.flickr.com/photos/amyrosephotography/6004796887/in/faves-etherealradiance/lightbox/
Positive affirmation for the day: My breath is my anchor in the world.
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Wow! I’m a diaphragm breather! Who knew? I’m a terrible snorer also, so this surprises me. I might find a quiet spot this afternoon and practice deep, controlled breathing. Thankyou for a wonderful post Jess
I have found that I tend to chest breath because I have been taught my whole life to pull in my stomach…which makes it harder to belly breath! I have really had to work on this because it feels awkward to me when I release my stomach muscles and “let it all hang out” for good diaphragm breathing. There is always something to work on
Thanks for reminding me!!!
Lina, I feel the same way! After sucking it in your whole life, it sure is an adjustment to just relax those muscles and breathe deeply. xx
Great post, thanks for sharing! With our busy lives our breath becomes almost automatic. Sometimes we don’t even notice that we are breathing at all. Several years ago I became aware of my (deep) breath again and it has made a world of difference in my life. I feel more relaxed, less anxious, at peace, slowed down. It was a snowball effect from there. I am now more mindful and actually notice my life in the present moment. Whenever I feel life speeding up, I take a few deep breathes and it grounds me. I am now a deep belly breather.
Hi Jess! Have you ever done a post about hair removal? Curious to hear your take on wax (seems traumatizing to skin) vs IPL (same) vs depilatory creams (probably chemical-laden) vs shaving. Thanks!
Mari » Hi Mari, no I haven’t. Thanks for the tip though! I will look into it. x
I have been trying to deep breathe for years without success – then I found out why. Buteyko breathing techniques say you shouldn’t be deep breathing at all. Deep breathing is in fact dangerous for people affected by asthma – and I have just cleared my husband and daughter’s asthma using shallow breathing. Do an interenet search on Buteyko and read his work which also explains why the controlled yogic breathing can be helpful.
Hi! Jess…This is not a comment on deep breathing but an inquiry if I may…I was one of the winners of the “Tiny Buddha” the book of wisdom contest on your website. Origninally I had requested that the book be delivered to a friend’s shop in Sydney since I would be down there in Feb.,however,since finding out that the book would be shipped from the U.S. I decided to change course & have you send it to me at my home address in the U.S.: 333 E. Markland Drive,Monterey Park, California 91755 instead. As of today(Feb.2), I have yet to receive the book. Can you please,check on the matter? Thank you! Jane KIkuta
Jane Kikuta » Hi Jane, I’m so sorry! I must have missed your email because I was still waiting for you to get back to me with your US address. I have just forwarded your address to Lori from Tiny Buddha and she will arrange for the book to be sent to you. I’m so sorry about the mix up and delay! x
Hi Jess
First time reader (great blog!)
Have you read Andrew Weil’s book on Breathing? I have read all his books (I think!) – he strikes a chord with me.
Cheers
J
Jo » Hi Jo, Welcome! Thank you. No, I haven’t read that one but I will be sure to do so. Thanks for the tip! x
Great article. thank you for this! Sharing it all around!!!
xoxo
T


